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10,000+ families

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CoParent

Good morning, Sarah

Wednesday, January 15, 2026

Upcoming Events

Pending Trades

Outstanding

$245

Messages

This Week

Your custody

4:00 PM pickup

Soccer Practice

5:30 PM

Recent Activity

Trade Accepted

Michael accepted swap

9:41

Good morning, Sarah

Emma · Your custody today

Calendar

Messages

Expenses

Calls

Docs

Trades

Events

Trades

$124

Balance

Upcoming

Pickup today at 4:00 PM

Lincoln Elementary School

Home

Calendar

Messages

Expenses

9:41

February 2026

Your days

Michael's days

SMTWTFS

Your custody today

Pickup 4:00 PM · Lincoln Elementary

Home

Calendar

Messages

Expenses

9:41

Michael

Online

E2E

AI tone monitoring active✓

Can we swap Saturday? I have a work thing

Of course! Happy to swap days 👍

Thanks! I'll send a trade request

Approved! Emma will love it 😊

Type a message...

Home

Calendar

Messages

Expenses

9:41

Expenses

Split & track child costs

You're Owed

$124.50

You Owe

$45.00

Recent

⚽

Soccer registration

Split 50/50

$90.00

📚

School supplies

You paid

$34.50

🏥

Doctor copay

Michael paid

$45.00

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9:41

Good morning, Sarah

Emma · Your custody today

Calendar

Messages

Expenses

Calls

Docs

Trades

Events

Trades

$124

Balance

Upcoming

Pickup today at 4:00 PM

Lincoln Elementary School

Home

Calendar

Messages

Expenses

9:41

February 2026

Your days

Michael's days

SMTWTFS

Your custody today

Pickup 4:00 PM · Lincoln Elementary

Home

Calendar

Messages

Expenses

9:41

Michael

Online

E2E

AI tone monitoring active✓

Can we swap Saturday? I have a work thing

Of course! Happy to swap days 👍

Thanks! I'll send a trade request

Approved! Emma will love it 😊

Type a message...

Home

Calendar

Messages

Expenses

9:41

Expenses

Split & track child costs

You're Owed

$124.50

You Owe

$45.00

Recent

⚽

Soccer registration

Split 50/50

$90.00

📚

School supplies

You paid

$34.50

🏥

Doctor copay

Michael paid

$45.00

Home

Calendar

Messages

Expenses

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Protected with the same security standards used by

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Bank-level encryption

HIPAA

Health data protected

99.9% Uptime

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Messages secured

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How it works

Four simple steps to transform your coparenting. Most families are up and running in under 10 minutes.

Step 01

Verify your identity

Create your account and verify with phone or government ID. Every parent on the platform is confirmed to be who they say they are.

Bank-grade identity verification

Step 02

Set up your schedule

Choose from 6 custody templates or build a custom schedule. Add holidays, set exchange locations, and preview custody percentages.

6 templates + custom builder

Step 03

Invite your coparent

Send an invite via email or text. Once they join and verify, your shared workspace activates with messaging, expenses, and documents.

Email or SMS invite

Step 04

Coparent with confidence

Every message is encrypted and timestamped. AI monitors tone to keep things civil. Everything is court-ready and exportable with one click.

AI-powered peace of mind

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Features

Everything you need, nothing you don't

Designed with real families in mind. Every feature exists because parents asked for it.

January 2026Week 3

Sarah

Michael

Your custody today

4:00 PM • Lincoln Elementary

Custody Calendar

Visual calendar with color-coded custody schedules. See who has the kids at a glance with parent avatars on each day.

Trade DaysSwap requests

1 pending

Michael

Swap

Sat Jan 18Sun Jan 19

"Work event - happy to take Sunday!"

Completed

Jan 10 ↔ Jan 13

Court-ready audit trail

Trade Days

Request and approve custody swaps with a clear audit trail. Every change is documented and timestamped.

Expense TrackerJanuary 2026

+$125

Total

$847

Owed

$245

Owe

$120

⚽

Soccer Registration

You • Jan 15

$150

SETTLED ✓

📚

School Supplies

Michael • Jan 15

$45

PENDING

Expense Tracking

Log shared expenses, upload receipts, and track who owes what. Split costs fairly and automatically.

MichaelOnline now

Encrypted

Can we swap Saturday? I have a work event 🙏

10:32 AM

That works for me! I'll send a trade request now 👍

10:35 AM

Perfect, thanks! 🙌

10:38 AM

All messages securely stored & timestamped for legal records

Secure Messaging

All conversations are encrypted, stored, and timestamped for your records. Court-ready documentation.

Document VaultEncrypted storage

12 files

DOC

School_Report.docx

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Insurance_Card.jpg

PDF

Medical_Records.pdfJan 12

🏥Medical

📚School

⚖️Legal

📸Photos

Storage

124 MB / 5 GB

Document Storage

Store medical records, school info, and legal documents securely. Access from anywhere.

AES-256

E2E

SOC 2

SECURE

Protected

Privacy First

Your data is protected with bank-level encryption. Only you and your coparent can access it.

Why families love us

Built for peace of mind

We believe coparenting should be about your children, not logistics. Let us handle the details so you can focus on what matters most.

Reduce conflict with clear communication
Save time with automated scheduling
Track every expense automatically
Keep important documents organized
Access from any device, anywhere
Court approved documentation

AI-Powered Safety

Technology that keeps the peace

AI monitors every message for hostile tone and suggests calmer alternatives. Identity verification ensures every parent is who they claim to be.

AI Tone Monitoring

Advanced AI Engine

Every message is analyzed in real-time. If hostile tone is detected, the AI steps in with a calmer alternative — helping both parents communicate constructively.

MichaelOnline

AI Active

Can we swap Saturday? I have a work event

10:32 AM

You NEVER pick them up on time. This is ridiculous and I'm done dealing with your irresponsibility.

Drafting...

Tone alert

This message may escalate conflict. AI has a calmer alternative ready.

Suggested rephrase

"I've noticed pickup has been late a few times recently. Can we agree on a consistent pickup window so the kids know what to expect?"

Type a message...

Encrypted & timestamped for legal records

Real-time detection

AI rephrase suggestions

Pattern learning

Court-safe records

Identity Verification

Bank-Grade Verification

Three-tier verification ensures every parent is who they say they are. Government ID + selfie matching provides bank-level identity assurance.

Verification StatusSettings > Identity

Email Verified

Account created & confirmed

Phone Verified

SMS code confirmed

Identity Verified

Government ID + selfie match

Fully Verified Parent

Unlocked features

MessagingCalendarExpensesCourt ExportsVideo CallsCheck-insDocuments

Beyond Text

Stay connected, stay informed

Video calls with AI transcription, daily check-ins with photos and mood tracking, and shared routines across two homes.

Video & Voice Calls

Crystal-clear calls with optional recording and AI-powered live transcription. Every call becomes a documented record.

Michael Thompson

You

REC

AI Transcribing

12:34

Live Transcript

Whisper AI

Michael: "...so I was thinking soccer practice on Tuesdays and Thursdays, that way it works with both our schedules..."

10 free minutes/monthOptional recordingAI transcriptionCall history

Daily Check-ins & Routines

Share daily updates with photos, mood tracking, meal logs, and sleep quality. Routines stay consistent across both homes.

Daily Check-inToday, Feb 8 · 7:30 PM

Shared with coparent

Mood

😊Great

🙂Good

😐Okay

😟Tough

Highlights

Emma had a wonderful day at school. Got an A on her science project about the solar system! She was so excited to tell everyone. Had a great dinner — ate all her vegetables without complaining.

Meals3/3

SleepExcellent

ActivitySoccer

Photos

Science project

At the park

Bedtime story

Mood trackingPhoto sharingMeal & sleep logsShared routines

Court-Ready

Documentation your attorney will love

Every interaction is timestamped, tamper-proof, and exportable. Messages can't be edited or deleted. Schedule changes have a complete audit trail. Financial records include receipts and confirmations.

Timestamped, tamper-proof records of all communications

Immutable audit log for every schedule change

One-click comprehensive court report generation

Recommended by family law attorneys nationwide

"The documentation from this app is exactly what we need in family court. Timestamped, organized, and tamper-proof. I recommend it to every client."

Jennifer Hayes, Esq.

Family Law Attorney, 15+ years

Exportable Records

Message History

Every message with timestamps, read receipts, and tone warnings

Schedule Changes

Complete audit log of all custody modifications

Financial Records

Expense reports, payments, and outstanding balances

Call Transcripts

AI-generated transcriptions of recorded calls

Shared Documents

Access logs, version history, and integrity checks

Complete Court Package

Comprehensive PDF with all records combined

One-click court package

Generate a comprehensive PDF with all records

You're Not Alone

Community & professional support

Connect with coparents anonymously, or invite your attorney, mediator, or therapist to collaborate directly.

Anonymous Community

A private, members-only space where coparents share advice and support. Your coparent is automatically filtered out — they can never see your posts.

Community

Anonymous Mode

Anonymous Parent2h ago

How do you handle it when your coparent schedules activities during your custody time without asking? Looking for advice on how to approach this calmly...

12 replies

Caring ParentTop Contributor

5h ago

Just wanted to share a win — my coparent and I finally agreed on a holiday schedule using the app's template! Took 10 minutes instead of weeks of arguing.

15 kudos

Your coparent is automatically filtered — they can't see your posts

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Professional Integration

Your attorney, mediator, or therapist connects with consent-based access controls. They see only what's relevant and can conduct video sessions through the app.

Attorney

Sees only their client's side

Consent

Mediator

Both parents consent, sees all

Consent

Therapist

Both consent, limited data

Consent

Professional workspace features

Video mediation

Case management

Time tracking

Invoice generation

Template library

Court exports

Why Families Choose Us

Not just another messaging app

Purpose-built tools make the difference.

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AI stopped the arguments

"The AI tone monitoring is a game-changer. My ex started typing something aggressive, and the app suggested a calmer version. That one feature has reduced our arguments by 90%. Everything is documented and we can focus on the kids."

Sarah M.

Mom of 2

Austin, TX

No more payment drama

"The expense tracking with direct payments through the app means no more awkward Venmo requests. We split soccer fees, medical bills, and school supplies with receipts attached. It even calculates who owes what automatically."

James R.

Dad of 3

Denver, CO

Community & privacy

"The anonymous community saved my sanity. I can share what I'm going through with other parents who understand — and my ex can't see any of it. My journal stays private too. Finally an app that respects boundaries."

Emily C.

Mom of 1

Seattle, WA

Schedule setup in minutes

"We set up the 2-2-3 custody schedule using the built-in templates in literally 5 minutes. Added holiday overrides, set exchange locations, and the app even shows the custody split percentage. We went from weeks of negotiation to done in one evening."

Michael T.

Dad of 2

Chicago, IL

Always connected to my kids

"The daily check-ins with photos and mood tracking mean I always know how my kids are doing at their dad's. And the video calls with AI transcription? No more 'I never said that' — everything is recorded and documented."

Lisa M.

Mom of 2

Phoenix, AZ

Attorney-approved records

"My attorney was blown away by the court-ready exports. Messages, schedules, expenses, call transcripts — all timestamped and tamper-proof in one PDF. The identity verification also means everything holds up because both parents are verified."

David P.

Dad of 1

Portland, OR

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Pricing

Completely free for families

We believe every family deserves access to great coparenting tools. No credit card required. No hidden fees. No trial period.

$0/month

Forever free

AI tone monitoring & message rephrasing

Identity verification (phone + gov. ID)

Unlimited custody calendar with 6 templates

Trade day requests with audit trail

Encrypted messaging with court-ready records

Expense tracking, splitting & P2P payments

Document vault (encrypted storage)

Daily check-ins with photos & mood tracking

Video & voice calls with recording

Automatic call transcription

10 free call minutes per month

Professional directory & workspace integration

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No credit card required

Need more call minutes or premium features? View optional add-ons →

FAQ

Frequently asked questions

Hover over a question to see the answer

Is The Coparenting App really free?

Yes! The core app is completely free for families — including AI tone monitoring, identity verification, custody calendar, messaging, expense tracking, daily check-ins, and court-ready exports. The only paid features are optional video/voice call minute packages.

How does AI tone monitoring work?

Every message is analyzed in real-time using AI. If hostile or aggressive tone is detected, the app pauses sending and suggests a calmer alternative. You can use the suggestion, edit it, or send your original message. It's designed to reduce conflict before it starts.

What is identity verification?

We offer three-tier verification: email, phone (SMS code), and government ID with selfie matching via Stripe Identity. This ensures every parent on the platform is who they claim to be, and it makes your records more credible for legal purposes.

Can my ex see my community posts or journal?

No. Your journal entries are 100% private. In the community, you post anonymously and your coparent is automatically filtered out — they can never see your posts, comments, or even know you're a member.

Are the records admissible in court?

We provide timestamped, tamper-proof records of all communications, schedule changes, expenses, and call transcripts. Messages cannot be edited or deleted. Family law attorneys nationwide recommend our documentation format, and everything can be exported as a comprehensive court package with one click.

Can my attorney or mediator join?

Yes! Professionals can connect to your workspace with consent-based access. Attorneys see only their client's side, mediators see everything with both parents' consent, and therapists get limited relevant data. They can even conduct video mediation sessions through the app.

Still have questions? Contact our support team

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Coparenting, reimagined

Good morning, Sarah

Trusted by familiesworldwide

SOC 2 Type II

AES-256

HIPAA

99.9% Uptime

GDPR Ready

E2E Encrypted

How it works

Verify your identity

Set up your schedule

Invite your coparent

Coparent with confidence

Everything you need, nothing you don't

Custody Calendar

Trade Days

Expense Tracking

Secure Messaging

Document Storage

Privacy First

Built for peace of mind

Technology that keeps the peace

AI Tone Monitoring

Identity Verification

Stay connected, stay informed

Video & Voice Calls

Daily Check-ins & Routines

Documentation your attorney will love

Message History

Schedule Changes

Financial Records

Call Transcripts

Shared Documents

Complete Court Package

Community & professional support

Anonymous Community

Professional Integration

Not just another messaging app

Loved by real families

Completely free for families

Frequently asked questions

Is The Coparenting App really free?

How does AI tone monitoring work?

What is identity verification?

Can my ex see my community posts or journal?

Are the records admissible in court?

Can my attorney or mediator join?

Are you a family law professional?

Ready to simplify your coparenting?

How it works

Verify your identity

Set up your schedule

Invite your coparent

Coparent with confidence

Everything you need, nothing you don't

Custody Calendar

Trade Days

Expense Tracking

Secure Messaging

Document Storage

Privacy First

Built for peace of mind

Technology that keeps the peace

AI Tone Monitoring

Identity Verification

Stay connected, stay informed

Video & Voice Calls

Daily Check-ins & Routines

Documentation your attorney will love

Message History

Schedule Changes

Financial Records

Call Transcripts

Shared Documents

Complete Court Package

Community & professional support

Anonymous Community

Professional Integration

Not just another messaging app

Trusted by families
worldwide